The Journey of the Heart

The journey of the heart is about the process of learning to trust again as you embark on a journey that will allow greater love to show you the path to discover the value of your individual human existence, and uncover the radiant, joyful heart within yourself. Well, before taking the journey of the heart, you will be called to be bold and brave and resolve to:

 
  • Be 100% responsible for your life and do the work that will cleanse you from all the nonsense that has gathered in your mind.

  • Install new beliefs that will help you to rise above any event in your life and strengthen the bridge that supports radical honesty and radical forgiveness.

  • Gain a clear understanding of your core values, so that you can bring new dimensions of infinite love, intimacy, and trust, and slip-free of the shackles of the past into a fresh space of creative freedom.

I am certain there are only few of us who understand what it takes to embark on the journey of the heart that will lead us to get back to what we want in our relationship, and uncover the radiant, joyful heart within ourselves. Some of you might say that it is impossible to take that journey, and it is a waste of time.

One thing is for sure, when you fence in the desires of your spirit within fixed walls of limited beliefs, allow guilt to harden your heart, chest, and stomach muscles with its arsenal of weapons (e.g., Shame, Fear, Self-loathing...), you dishonor your true ‘SELF’ and your ability to cultivate the power of greater love and experience the relationship you desire.

It is one thing to TALK about experiencing the relationship you desire and finding true love, it is quite another to actually ACHIEVE them in your journey. The best advice I can give you right now is this, give your 'Self' PERMISSION to step out of your comfort zone, go beyond your rejections, uproot the arrogance of the ego, and get the support you need to divorce guilt, shame, fear, self-loathing, self-depreciation, and codependency, and embark on the journey of the heart.

Yes, it can be done. I believe through the power of commitment, we all can be motivated to put together a balanced self-care program of action that will move us to never give up until we do the work to eliminate the diversions that are keeping us from taking the journey of the heart, and having an enduring and alive relationship, a relationship that binds greater love, harmony, passion, intimacy, and fulfillment into one powerful force.

It is also certain if you choose to embrace your sovereignty, you will find the means to be brave and embark on the journey of the heart that will lead you to slip-free of the shackles of the past into a fresh space of creative freedom to live a valued life.

Well, if you want to embark on the journey of the heart, you will also want to learn to listen to your inner reality, do the work that will help you to become more inner-directed, and most importantly you must take:

  • Responsibility for the authorship of your relationship.

  • Take inspired steps towards divorcing your guilt and eliminate the diversions that keep you from attending to your daily spiritual food, such as greater love, peace of mind, forgiveness, compassion, grace, courage, gratitude, joy, self-awareness, romance, and harmony.

With this list in mind, do note if you do not grow because of another person's love, it is generally because it is a counterfeit form of love. True love (Soulful Love) is unconditional positive regard. It allows us to be whole and accept all the parts of ourselves. With true love, there is no pain and no fear. You find affection, appreciation, attention, kindness, caring, closeness, compassion, freedom, friendship, growth, intimacy, respect, peace, happiness, intimacy, patience, passion, trust, understanding, and wisdom. An exclusive invitation to explore the following questions:

  • How would you know if you have been "entranced" by dramatic experiences of a counterfeit version of love?

  • When would you choose to know what you value in a relationship, and what would it take for you to overcome the roadblocks that have detoured you from true love?

  • When will you choose to eliminate the fixed walls of limited beliefs, the illusion of “I know...”; and go beyond your words, the diversions that are keeping you away from taking enhancing actions to extract your treasure, Soulful Love?

As you reflect on these questions, it is my sincere and heartfelt hope, you will make choices that will lead you to embark on the journey of the heart to free yourself from your unresolved emotions, gain clarity on your old wounds of love, romance and get back to what you really want in your relationship.

Written By: Windsor Lindor © 2021

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